Wednesday, March 25, 2009

When Toys Attack



Sounds like a new show on the Discovery channel. But, in our home, it's a reality. On any given day, an average of 38% of my children fall victim to an unprovoked toy attack. Those are scary numbers, folks. Toy attack awareness and prevention needs needs to be top priority in more homes as these percentages continue to climb. Or more innocent children will continue to suffer through this disastrous epidemic.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Scripture Sunday



Psalm 34:8
Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him.

Friday, March 20, 2009

If You Fall Asleep at Our House


Say you happen to come over to our house to play some video games with the Husband and a few rounds of Bananagrams with the clan. Then you indulge in enough yummy snacks that you feel satiated and content and decide that, yes, you will stay just a wee bit longer and watch that new movie. And if, as the movie wears on and the kids are quiet and snugly, your eyes begin to feel heavy and you decide to close them for just a minute, you will wake up in the morning like this:

See, the children will see that you have no blanket and will be generous enough to collect them from around the house and pile them on top of your head, which they seem to think is cold. They'll also provide you with extra pillows, although they may be placed on the wrong side of your head. And since the blanket didn't quite reach your feet, they'll pile some of their favorite stuffed animals there. Then they'll stand back and realize how silly you look, and this will be the first thing you see when you open your eyes:



Just so you know.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

I Nominate...


...www.LovingMyAmazingLife.blogspot.com for the Sisterhood Award! I was nominated by Queen of the Castle, over at www.savingstarfish.blogspot. She rules her home with grace amidst the chaos and is a fine example of perseverence.

Now I'm choosing LMAL as my nominee. This award is given to foster mamas who have a great attitude or show great gratitude. That's sometimes tough in the business of fostering (especially with unbalanced former foster parents stocking a new placement). LMAL desserves this award for juggling all this and still managing to make her own laundry detergent.
Yeah, you read it right: Make.

I'm also nominating www.largefamilymomma.blogspot.com. This woman. Wow. 26 children through birth and adoption. Most have some really challenging special needs. Need I say more?
And, D, over at www.blakesmeme.blogspot.com. For dealing with RADishes and Baby Weepy who was so horribly treated before he was given to her family. His healing will be slow, but he's in the perfect place with a fostermama who's up to the task.
These women and their families do good work every day and I appluade them.
You go, girls!
Now:
1. grab the award and stick it on your blog.
2. Nominate others
3. Link your nominees to your post
4. Let your nominees know they've been nominated
5. Link to the person who nominated you

Monday, March 16, 2009

Note From Birthmom

The caseworker hauled Zephan, kicking and screaming, out of his house and to his weekly visit with his birthmom. When he came home a few minutes ago, this note was in his diaper bag:
"Thank you for caring for him when I couldn't. Thank you for stepping up to be his mother. I'm grateful to you and your husband. I know that he'll be guided and loved, no matter what. I love you guys because you love JJ."

I'm speechless.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Special Needs

Oh, my goodness.
Look at them.
God did some amazing work when He created these guys. You know, it's funny, we bought Turbo Tax and Micah was working on our returns. He says, "Babe, I thought you said that there was an adoption tax credit of some sort...."
Me: "Yeah, there should be."
Micah: "Nope. It's not on here. Hmmm."
Me: "It says on the box that it covers adoptions!"
Micah: "The only thing I can find is the Special Needs Adoption Tax Credit."
Me: "That's it!"
Micah: "Wha...? That's not it. It says, 'Special Needs'."
Me: "Yeah, that's how State adoptions are classified."
Micah: "Nuh-uh. Really? But they're not really special needs..."
Did you guys know that a child is qualified as special needs if he or she is a minority? Or part of a sibling group? Or if they're in foster care at all?
Every child without parents has special needs. I would pray that every family truly seek God with regards to these babies. I believe every Mom and Dad needs to ask God if this is a path He has set out for them. Not as a last resort to parenthood or as a special ministry, but as a Christian. He may say, "No.", He may say, "Not right now." or He may say, "Yes. One of your children is waiting for you to claim them. They are scared and alone and they want their Mommy. Will you allow Me to lead you to them?"
People don't know what they're missing by not seeking God in this. These children bless our home every day.
Are you sure all your children are home today?

John 14:18
"I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you."

Friday, March 13, 2009

My Eldest is 7!

I wish I could say that Solomon had a better birthday than he did. He and Levi both came down with the stomach flu. We didn't know that Levi had it until he projectiled in Wal-Mart. Twice. But at least we got the Sprite.
And, of course, I had told Solomon that he could pick out a movie at Hollywood Video. Needless to say, he didn't want to skip that, as it was the silver lining for his otherwise pathetic birthday. So, we went to rent a video. The trip consisted of me waiting on the curb with the puker while Solly and Kai ran in and chose what he wanted. The they came out to sit on the curb with the puker while the baby and I ran back in to grab his choice and check out. Luckily this worked because the storefront consists of huge windows through which we could see one another during the whole process. I think the clerk was a bit confused, though!
Then, as we headed for home, Levi let 'er rip all over the van.
Perfect end to a perfect birthday.

Wednesday, March 04, 2009